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122Susan Walsh March 21, 2012 at 8:17 am
@Emily

I think people tend to oversimplify with the Alpha/Beta thing. In reality, it’s not quite that black and white.

Agreed. I think college males are evaluated strictly on a doucheiness scale. While that is often a good proxy for alpha, it’s not entirely indicative.

Also, I personally know a bunch of young guys that are beta, who have all had 10+ sexual partners. Vox Day says 15 is alpha, so 14 is greater beta? At age 22? (I say they are beta because they are all about the comfort traits, and not in the least bit dominant. They’re cute, and they get lucky sometimes.)

123Susan Walsh March 21, 2012 at 8:38 am
-Susan, no one answered my previous query. Does this girl have a stable father figure in her life?

Yes, but her parents had a terrible marriage and a very acrimonious divorce when she was in high school. She feels closer to him now than she ever did before.

124Singlicious March 21, 2012 at 9:03 am
For what it’s worth, I think I understand both the incentives for hook-up behavior, the regret, and the difficulty in changing a habit. I sympathize, and I certainly hope the past doesn’t have to have limited her pool substantially for the future, assuming she changes her behavior to what she feels comfortable with and is honest with future partners.

I realize this is a story about one particular person, but it sounds like her story is intended to illustrate something about hook-up culture. Where are the guys in this? Why, in the 21st century, are we still hearing concerns that this woman is a huge risk for a relationship but not hearing anything remotely similar about the guys who are out at the college parties hooking up every weekend?

125Jason March 21, 2012 at 9:22 am
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122Susan Walsh March 21, 2012 at 8:17 am
@Emily

I think people tend to oversimplify with the Alpha/Beta thing. In reality, it’s not quite that black and white.

Agreed. I think college males are evaluated strictly on a doucheiness scale. While that is often a good proxy for alpha, it’s not entirely indicative.

123Susan Walsh March 21, 2012 at 8:38 am
-Susan, no one answered my previous query. Does this girl have a stable father figure in her life?

Yes, but her parents had a terrible marriage and a very acrimonious divorce when she was in high school. She feels closer to him now than she ever did before.

125Jason March 21, 2012 at 9:22 am
Singlicious,

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